Birthdays, Christmases, Valentine’s Days and anniversaries – if we are lucky, we can expect to be on the receiving end of kind messages and thoughtful acts on special occasions such as these. Often, though, the mere expectation of loving treatment can make it seem in some way false or forced. Random, unexpected acts of kindness, on the other hand, whether toward a partner, friend, child, family member or colleague, can really make other people feel special, and they needn’t cost a penny. Here are just a few ways that you can brighten somebody else’s day and make him or her feel loved.
1. The next time you find yourself thinking about someone you care for, drop your loved one a text message to let him or her know.
2. Put a note inside your beloved’s or your child’s lunch box to say that you love him or her, or stick a Post-it on a mirror or somewhere else where it will be found as the recipient goes about his or her day.
3. Ask about someone’s day and really listen to what he or she has to say.
4. Pay someone a genuine compliment when he or she least expects it.
5. Run your partner a nice, relaxing bath if he or she has had a hard day.
6. Give someone your undivided attention if he or she is going through a tough time and needs a shoulder to cry on.
7. A simple touch or a heartfelt smile is guaranteed to lift anyone’s spirits and make him or her feel cared for.
Go on, make someone’s day!
[Article first appeared in October 2010 issue of Family Times.]
